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Tell your partner how witnessing his or her pain makes you feel. Let your spouse know that you are sad, disappointed, guilty, scared and regretful. Your partner needs to see and hear that you are affected; that you feel enough pain and remorse to avoid repeating the hurtful action.
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Love Touches: What is Real?
I’ve been a marriage therapist for nearly 20 years and I see a growing trend in couples needing both relationship therapy and addiction recovery therapy. The trend is due to the overuse and misuse of technology’s platforms.
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Few therapists, even those trained in marriage therapy, arecomfortable talking about sex and intimacy with their clients, according toPsychology Today.
Sex is a topic that is difficult to discuss under the BEST ofcircumstances, much less when difficulties exist in a relationship.
Many clients who complete their therapy treatment plan withouttalking about sex continue to live with untreated and festering problems.
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I would be hard pressed to think of any couple I’ve worked with, who hasn’t listed ‘communication’ as one of the top concerns in their relationships. Every time I hear a couple saying they “can’t communicate”, reminds me of a cheeky comment by a professor of mine, ages ago, saying that couples don’t have communication problems unless they speak different native languages.